Wisdom, dance moves on the path of life, or Christmastime birthdays

©Copyright LillyGrillzit all rights reserved Dec. 28, 2010 - Happy Birthday daughter, this is your magic, and bountiful year. The very best to you in 2011 and beyond.

This is a Happy Birthday to Lilly's daughter. Her daughter Kate, has only a few birthday celebrations within the same few days of her birthday, in her memories. It is a balancing act to keep a holiday going for many, while making sure that special Birthday person gets their dues. Here is hoping for a better birthday in 2011. Happy Birthday dear.

This is a dedication to Lilly's daughter Kate . It is her birthday today.

Her Birthday is 3 days after Christmas , 3 days. before New Years

This year, Lilly found the perfect card for Kate . There was a picture of an elf and Jesus sitting at a table. The elf says to Jesus, "Man, that must suck having your Birthday on Christmas ."

Those who have the unfortunate timing to be born so close to Christmas, always will understand the hype; "This is your birthday and Christmas present".

• One road in life, is only one leg of the journey.
• There are often several ways to get to the same place
• Sometimes signs and wonders are sent to jolt you off your path
• At times the path is shared with others. Watching them pull ahead while you stay behind obeying the rules, can be frustrating.
• There are junctures where we are sent back to the basics. No racing to and fro. It is a slow and reflective time.

Kate, as your Mother, Lilly is amazed that she is entrusted with such a special person in her  daughter. 

In families and other groups, it is considered socially better to be alike. The more an individual blends in with the group, the less problems they have with being 'different'. 

It is healthy and smart to try new ways, check your paths yourself. How will you learn the ways, if you are glued to one single path, laid before you by those who are not You.

As we travel down life's highway, we learn or hear things that affect us in different ways. When we receive fear based messages or signs, it can make us doubt ourselves or the Road we are travelling. 

Getting distracted, or becoming afraid are only temporary. The benefits of having a navigator, and good Teachers, are a remedy for being on the side of the road. This is just temporary. In a minute, you will be back on the road.

While we travel down life's road, we often cross the paths of others. We have learned the rules, abide by the criteria laid down before us, and watch in stunned shock, as they move ahead. They are ahead for now. 

Kate you know what is right for you. Others think, say and rushed along, ahead, they are not better off. Be assured you are perfectly where you are supposed to be. Continue on carefully, between the mayonaise and mustard.

You will reach your destination in one piece, rested and prepared.

Every step you take makes a difference. Each kind thought and deed that you give to others, means a world of difference. 

Whenever Lilly hears the word, family Kate is who she thinks of. She makes home and holiday nice. She is a care taker and home maker and Lilly is proud to wish her Daughter a happy 29th birthday.